Saturday, October 9, 2010

Hearts United for Animals Nebraska Rescue Part 1

Hearts United for Animals is a no-kill shelter, sanctuary and animal welfare organization dedicated to the relief of suffering. We specialize in long distance adoptions. To check out all the dogs for adoption go to www.hua.org. This video contains footage of the arrival of Nebraska puppy mill dogs saved in August of 2008.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CLwNXOLCeuI&hl=en

Friday, October 8, 2010

Thursday, October 7, 2010

6 Elements of a Successful Adoption

Adoption can bring new love to a family, but a successful adoption takes some skill. This guide gives 6 elements key in successfully adopting a new son or daughter.

Know Why You're Adopting
It's important to consider when adopting whether or not you want a child, especially one who may not be related to you. Some parents adopt without considering how having a child not biological related can affect them. You should have clear goals for adopting, but also factor in why. If, for example, you are incapable of having children, the decision can be more logical. Even if you are capable, you have to consider the time, effort, and hard work of raising a child.

An Experienced Adoption Lawyer
You need proper legal representation no matter what form of adoption you are trying - agency adoption, independent adoption, international adoption, etc. Many parents go into this process with no understanding of the laws, finding out first hand how picky agencies can be and how complex other forms of adoption are. An experienced lawyer can guide you through the adoption process, saving you valuable time, and ensuring you are following all laws.

Create a Profile
A prospective birth parent or parents will often be choosing you, not you choosing them. You'll be asked to create a profile showing your family and life. Birth parents will then decide, based on this profile, on who to give their child to.

Communicating Well
Once you start this process, it's important to be able to communicate with others without delay. In other words, you need be to easily reached by phone, mail, even e-mail. If you move or change your number, keep any agencies or parents in the know on your changes. While this may seem minor, many adopting parents are hard to reach during crucial stages.

Following Rules
If you break laws or try to lie about who you are and what kind of parent you are, it will be found out. You almost always have options for adopting, but the system is designed to protect children. Therefore, by breaking rules it looks like you have something to hide, even minor ones. Be honest. Explain any legal history you might have. It will be much easier.

Time
If you have time and patience, the adopting process can be exciting and joyful. But keep in mind that the average adoption can take from 1-3 years, depending on where you look. Perhaps the quickest adoption form is the independent adoption, where you go directly to the birth parents to adopt a child. Agency adoptions are easier on you in terms of documentation, but they are more expensive and you can be put on a long waiting list. In any case, an expert lawyer should be able to give you a time table for how long this process can take. Patience is a virtue here.

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Adoption - And The Steps To Follow

After you have familiarized yourself with the process and its legal submissions, you can now begin thinking about the type of child that you wish to adopt. This is a critical phase, because the type of child you decide to adopt will affect the length of time that the process will take. Some important things to consider are the child's age, ethnicity, special needs, and gender.

It is also important to consider the type of adoption that you would like to take, and again, an attorney can help a great deal with this process. There are three ways to adopt children: private agency, which offers more choices for a higher cost, independent, which includes the attorney and the child's birth parents in the process, and paid facilitator, which are unlicensed companies that pose higher risks to the adopting family while charging a high price.

Depending on the method chosen for adopting a child, the court cost and cost for the lawyer can range between $3500 and $10000. So the next decision would be based on how these costs, among other costs, will be paid. As a couple, there are many options available to help pay for these expenses, and these include but are not limited to: loans, grants, employer assistance, tax credit, and adoption assistance.

Once the financial concerns have been taken care of, you may begin with the "home study process", which is basically a training and assessment process done by a social worker. The home study process involves teaching of the potential adoptions what to expect once the process has been completed and is also a check of the stability of the home that will be provided for the child or children to be adopted.

Adoption and parenting classes are required by public and private organizations to make sure that the parents are properly familiarized with the possible incidences that can occur once the child has been adopted, and this includes state policies as well. If you are willing to attend these classes, check your local social services department or Foster Parent Association for class locations and details. Once all these tasks have been completed, you are now ready to finally adopt a child, so what is left is to begin your search for a child.

The search for a child can be a rewarding process, and a good place to start is an agency, which can be found online or in phone books. Once you get in contact with an agency, be sure to keep in touch with them as often as possible to ensure that the process runs smoothly. For any additional questions or information on adoption, consult with your attorney or local social services department.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

National Adoption Month

Since its 1976 proclamation as National Adoption Month in Massachusetts, November has remained a part of our National tradition as a time to celebrate the gift of love. A little over fifteen years ago, such a gift was given to me when my seven-day-old son was placed in my arms.

As I gazed into the face of my new son, I could not have imagined that a mere twelve hours later, I would fall completely, irrevocably in love. I could not have comprehended that this "Son of My Soul" [1], would capture my heart completely and forever hold it captive.

I have often been asked the question, "Do you ever wish you had a child of your own?" I'm sure the quizzical look on my face must have baffled such interrogators until they heard my response: "But I have!" It seems to many, that a magical contribution of DNA is all that can make someone yours, but that is not so. Life together, commitment and love, work their own magic.

I also often hear, "I'd love to adopt a baby, but I just don't think that I will feel the same towards an adopted child as I would had I given birth," to which I can only reply, "Then I feel sorry for your husband. He doesn't carry the child. I guess he can't love any children you have as his own." But you can find love through adoption, and through Special Needs Adoption, you can find a deep and satisfying love with the added knowledge that you are helping a child who is desperately waiting for a home, is in great need of an advocate...is urgently waiting....for love.

I remember the first time I was told that my son was considered "special needs." "Really?" I queried. I was confused. Why would he be considered so? Yes, he was born with cleft lip and palate, and there was a concern about hearing loss, but to me his "specialness," was in the sweet way he clung to me when I picked him up, the curl of his bright hair, his incredibly large, luminous eyes. I have to admit, that it took a little while for me to realize what I was being told, and when I fully understood, the impact hit me like nothing had before.

Special Needs. What does it mean in relation to adoption? A child is considered special needs if: they are an older child, usually over five-years-of age; a part of a sibling group where the local Children's Services is trying to keep brothers and sisters together; a minority or of mixed race; physically challenged, such as my son; children considered to be at risk, like those born to drug-addicted mothers or who have been abused or neglected; mentally or emotionally disabled because of inherited conditions or resulting from abuse. Special Needs. Shouldn't that translate to Special Love?

On the practical side, Special Needs could mean Special Expenses. In the case of special needs adoption, when conducted through your county Children's Services, many times there are no fees. Therapies and medical expenses are often covered, and frequently help is offered for schooling such as tutoring.

Special Needs. A way to open up your life, your home, your soul to a child who needs a family. An opportunity to finally form that family you forgot about on your way up the corporate ladder. Or maybe just a chance to finally fill that empty space in your heart, which has been waiting for someone special.

Special Needs. Indeed: Special Love, Special Memories, a Special Family for a very Special Child.

[1] Son of My Soul - The Adoption of Christopher, Debra Shiveley Welch, copyright 2007

Monday, October 4, 2010

Foster Care Or Adoption - Is There a Difference?

Are you providing foster care and adoption is now an option you would like to look further into? Or you may just want to adopt a child from foster care. Either way, whether you are adopting a child or fostering a child, you will discover that many of the day to day tasks involved in the child rearing of kids are similar.

There are meals to cook, clothes to wash, family outings to organize, homework to supervise, TLC and conversations to share, values to instill and discipline to administer.

However, there are also some differences:

While a child is in foster care;

* foster care is a temporary placement, which may at any time turn into long term foster care

* as soon as a child comes into care you must record any unusual markings found on the child's body

* the child must see a doctor within the first 24 hours of their arrival to your home

* each time a child comes into your care you must learn all you can about their history if it is available

* the child's case worker will be a regular guest in your home, more so in the beginning and then depending on the child's behavior, the visits will lessen

* if you are experiencing any doubts, you must answer to the case worker

* you will be responsible for keeping daily logs on the child

* there are visits with the biological parents that you must get the child to

* a record of medical and dental visits must be kept

* it is expected that the child be registered into a specific amount of recreation (of their choosing)

When you adopt a child from foster care;

* you are now the child's legal guardian

* adopting a child is a permanent addition to your family

* the child will have your last name

* you will not have to share authority with anyone regarding, medical treatments, decisions about school, religious practices and a variety of other parenting matters, while someone is looking over your shoulder

* the child can be included in your will and share in your estate along with any of your other children

* you will now be financially responsible for the child's welfare until adulthood Cost of Raising a Kid

* as an adoptive parent you will have the same legal rights and responsibilities to this child as you would if they were your own birth child

* you will have to deal with the child's emotional and mental issues due to their past experience of loss

* you will have the right to discipline, love and care for this child, totally and permanently.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Twee Vaders, two Fathers, zwei Väter // -- auf Deutsch

-- Deutscher Untertitel -- Der 13 jaehrige Terence singt in der holländischen TV-Sendung "Kinderen voor kinderen" ein selbst geschriebenes Lied über seine Adoption, und das Leben bei seinen zwei schwulen Vaetern.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bjchfGouxPg&hl=en

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Wireless Sensor Networks: Technology and Applications

Wireless sensor networks are destined to see widespread adoption in such diverse sectors as industrial process control, health care, and home automation. The promise and application domain of this field continues to grow, but several false-starts have limited deployments to date. Recent technological breakthroughs in reliability and power consumption have enabled new "industrial strength" networks to finally deliver on the promise of this exciting technology. Brutal standards battles between multi-billion-dollar companies attest to the commercial impact that the technology is now enjoying. This talk will cover some of the history of the field, along with the problems and their solutions, commercial applications, and research directions.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PVH1K1Eocz0&hl=en

Friday, October 1, 2010

Straight Pride?

Ok, so the Tea Party has a new TShirt for sale...I am dying to know what you our YouTubers think about this shirt? I think its funny as hell, Bryan not so much. Check out the original Queerty artical here: www.queerty.com Bryan is going to blog about this tonight take a look: gayfamilyvalues.blogspot.com So we here at the Leffew house are about to hit a milestone Ask A Gay Family 10 "Its all about the kids" Please help us out by posting a video quesition to the kids. Please atach the question to our last ask a gay family video. Thanks a million Jay



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qVOxPImvr64&hl=en

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Dell and Ubuntu!

In this video, Canonical founder Mark Shuttleworth talks about why he started Ubuntu, Linux adoption rate trends, how previous barriers to Linux adoption for mainstream users are improving, and more.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcNQ8QkXcyU&hl=en

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Cat Adoption Information

New York City council does not deal with cat adoptions directly. Anyone who approaches the council regarding the matter of NYC cat adoption will be given a link to Animal Care and Control Services and the ASPCA.

The Animal Care and Control Service is a huge, 'not for profit' organization that covers the whole of the New York City area and deals with shelter and adoption for all animals. As a main contributor to NYC cat adoption, the organisation is vital. There are huge numbers of stray cats in New York and some of the statistics regarding the breeding habits of cats are quite remarkable. Did you know that if two cats were left to their own family planning regime, they could be responsible for starting a family that would number more than 80 million cats within just ten years.

On the AC&C website it is possible to look at the cats that they are trying to find homes for and see a detailed description and photograph. They give information regarding the animal's habits and temperament and each cat is given a short review by their handlers. You are easily able to browse the list and see if there is a potentially suitable pet for you. Obviously you cannot go through the whole process of a NYC cat adoption just on the internet. You will have to visit the centre and handle the animal and there is a comprehensive application form that will need to be completed. This will ensure that the centre is happy about your suitability as a pet owner.

All the pets that are given homes via shelters are spayed or neutered. This is in an attempt to bring down the number of unwanted animals that arrive in their care. Before taking ownership of your pet from the AC&C NYC cat adoption centre, you will also have to sign to confirm that you will not sell or the trade the animal to a third party. If you find that you are no longer able to look after the pet, then you are legally obliged to return him to the shelter for re-homing once again.

The NYC cat adoption system is doing all that is within its powers to help the situation for the hundreds of unwanted pets that roam the streets of New York or are found abandoned or in unsuitable conditions. It operates on limited funding and is dependant on many volunteers. The fees that are charged when you adopt a cat are very low. Often these only just cover the medical care for the animal and their food and care during their stay in the shelter. Any donations that are made to the AC&C are always gratefully accepted, as are offers of help at the centre. If you are considering adopting a cat, perhaps you could give them some of your time to help out for a while. This will not only help them, but will give you valuable experience for when you take charge of your own pet.

Monday, September 27, 2010

Mrs. Winterbourne part 6 of 10 (kind of Adoption)

'Mrs. Winterbourne' is a highly improbable take on the Cinderella "rags to riches" story about 18 year-old Connie Doyle (Ricki Lake), who finds herself enceinte, unmarried, and homeless. Her criminal rat of a boyfriend, Steve DeCunzo (Loren Dean), wants nothing to do with her or the baby. But fate has a better future in store for Connie, and the heavily pregnant girl finds herself, almost miraculously, on a train bound for Boston from New York...



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9Qg9d6jrxM&hl=en

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Nancy Schaefer "The Unlimited Power of Child Protective Services" Part 1 of 2.flv

"After 4 years of viewing the ruthless and unsparing actions of CPS... I wrote a scathing report, entitled 'The Corrupt Business of Child Protective Services." The report cost me my senate seat." As we now know, Nancy Schaefer lost more than her senate fighting CPS. Let's keep her spirit alive, and keep fighting against the "ruthless and unsparing" gang of thugs known as CPS. This video is Part 1 of a 2, a powerful speech, given by Nancy Schaefer in Amsterdam, The Netherlands, August 15, 2009. ========================================================= Nancy Schaefer, former Georgia State Senator and President of Eagle Forum of Georgia and Eagle Forum's National Chairman of Parents' Rights, spoke at the World Congress of Families in Amsterdam, the Netherlands, on the subject of "The Unlimited Power of Child Protective Services." Nancy Schafer explained to over 4000 attendees from some 60 countries how CPS is a threat to children and families not only in the US, but in many other countries that have patterned their Child Protective Services, Foster Care, Family Court and Adoption Services after the US and supplied, with taxpayer dollars, the financial incentives to turn all Child Protective Services into a lucrative business. Nancy Schaefer, as always, was on the cutting edge of how to take the family back from the "social gestapo" made up of judges, caseworkers, court appointed attorneys, investigators, guardian ad litems, psychologists, psychiatrists, counselors, and more ...



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ry5eSKyZ98g&hl=en

Saturday, September 25, 2010

PART II: IFRS or Standards Convergence?

When it comes to the adoption of global standards, theres nothing new about the notion of convergence, according to DJ Gannon, Partner, Deloitte & Touche LLP. The key question for the SEC and policy makers is whether we adopt IFRS, or continue down the convergence path. Gannon points out that the path to convergence has at times led US GAAP and IFRS to part ways as it relates to certain standards a worrisome development he asserts.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E37CZhg2Hls&hl=en

Friday, September 24, 2010

Cute Pit Bull Terrier Puppies

Latest batch of cute pups here at the sanctuary. These and many more are available for adoption from Best Friends Animal Society. adoptions.bestfriends.org - to donate to Best Friends in our mission of No More Homeless Pets visit www.bestfriends.org



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gplXgq4vI2M&hl=en

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Teacup Dog Adoption - Do I Want One?

Many potential dog owners ask themselves: Do I want a teacup dog? Smaller dogs have long been admired and longed for. Because of their popularity, such pets are of the most considered. Such a decision can be daunting because of the many factors involved in choosing a dog of such a size. But for many, the most important questions to ask are unknown.

The official equivalent term to "teacup" is "toy." No breeds exist that literally have a "teacup" class or category. The term usually is used to refer to dogs that are smaller than average. Teacup yorkies can bring unwanted health problems and high vet bills. However, as a potential teacup pet owner you must ask yourself: Is a smaller size worth the risk and the cost?

Teacup dogs are so popular already, and breeders often charge more for smaller than average sized dogs. Therefore, even prior to bringing your dog to the vet you may pay a handsome fee for adoption. After bringing a teacup yorkie home health risks may arise such as hypoglycemia, fragile and easily broken bones; and birth defects such as tracheal collapse. In addition to the potential high vet bills and fees, are you also prepared to suffer the premature loss of a teacup pet?

If a small  dog is injured (accident risk increase greatly because of their small size) the risk for fatality is exponentially higher. Of course, a teacup yorkie with a broken leg is a much more sore sight than a Labrador with a broken leg. The Labrador will most likely nurse himself back to health, possibly after a quick checkup to the vet. A harmed Yorkshire terrier on the other hand will take longer to heal with such small bones, and may never recover, even after many trips to the vet.      

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Adoption - How to Handle Hygiene Issues Sensitively in Older Child Adoption

When older children join a family, they often lack proper hygiene. This is common and should be expected. Poor hygiene could be the result of lack of experience (no one ever taught the child hygiene), an expression of low self-esteem, or related to sexual abuse and/or trauma. Some children believe that no one will bother them if they are "stinky".

When one of my children joined our family, she knew little about table manners and less about proper bathroom hygiene. Her idea of bathing was throwing a few drops of water over herself. Hygiene is a health issue, but it is also an opportunity to express parental care and concern and to protect the child from comments from other children and possibly, even adults. If your new older child comes to you with a lack of hygiene, consider it an opportunity to grow your relationship.


Start with bathroom and bathing issues first because these issues will garner the most ridicule from other children.
If you have other children, gather all the children and announce that you're going to have a reminder about bathroom hygiene. Talk to all the children about how to use the bathroom and clean up afterwards. Post a handwashing reminder near the sink.
Don't compound existing shame by yelling/criticizing about hygiene or cleanliness. Further shame could actually make things worse.
If your child is prepubescent, consider bathing them like an infant. Wash their hair in the bathtub. Allow the child to wash their own body (point out any spots they miss), let them play in the tub, sing them songs or read them stories while they bath, and make it a fully positive experience. Super soft towels and a warm temperature help too.
Develop a nightly ritual around bathing so the child knows what to expect and stick to it. Children find structure relaxing.
Do not discuss your older child's hygiene issue with your other children or with other adults. Many children adopted an older age expect adults to be untrustworthy. Demonstrate that you can be trusted.

Remember to focus on the positive, on the victories. Your older child may have a lot to learn when they join your family. Baby steps need to be appreciated and progress should be celebrated. Don't focus on what the child didn't do. Focus on what the child got right.

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

The Psychological Benefits Of Adopting A Stray Dog Or Cat

We are experiencing a plague in the United States. Unwanted and stray cats and dogs. I believe a great deal of this is due to lack of education.

Some cities and municipalities put a lot of funding behind spaying and neutering education. Many communities have no-kill shelters, and a lot of other good is being done. But more can be done. The amount of strays is epidemic in the U.S and does not seem to be getting better. We know better, most of us.

For every baby born in the U.S there are seven cats and dogs born.

A female cat and her offspring can (and usually does) produce 420,000 kittens within seven years.

One female dog and her offspring can produce 67,000 puppies in six years (and usually does).

As many as 25% of dogs entering shelters each year are purebreds.

Approximately 61% of all dogs are killed in animal shelters.

Approximately 75% of all cats entering shelters are killed.

It costs approximately $100 to capture, house, feed, and eventually kill each stray animal -- a cost which you, the taxpayer, eventually pay.

Can you see the importance of becoming educated regarding spaying and neutering pets? The Doris Day Animal League has a wonderful program http://www.ddal.org which can give you a great bit of important information.

I do not sit in judgment Though I owned pets all my life, I truly did not understand true pet care until I reached my adulthood. I only knew what my parents taught me which was very limited.

As a upper-middle class child, like other upper-middle class kids, my parents bought me "the dog du jour" or what was trendy from a recent movie. From Irish Setters to Golden Retrievers to Great Danes to Sheepdogs.
And only from the finest breeders.

There is nothing wrong with that. Those animals need homes as well, and I feel good about every animal I learned to take care of as a child (from wherever they derived).

As I matured, I understood owning and caring for an animal is more than "just looking good next to an exotic or popular breed". It is about bonding, caring, and loving that animal and learning unconditional love from it.

I will give you an example. The Northridge earthquake in 1994 destroyed my home. I was forced to move into an apartment that didn't allow dogs. I had a beautiful blonde golden retriever I was forced to give away.
I cried on and off for a month (even though Otis got a home in Malibu and was living better than me).

I moved back to my home state of Mississippi to take care of an ailing mom. As a writer, I knew this could put me in a vulnerable situation, but I also knew that my mom took care of me whenever I was ill and that was the right thing to do. And as I expected, writer's block set in and I did not write for four years. That was okay. One learns some valuable lessons (much more important than writing) when caring for an ill parent. She was once an English teacher, in love with the English language, and, as goofy as it might seem, sometimes I feel her soul is guiding my own text. I have heard more than one writer or artist share the same sentiment; didn't believe them at the time, now I do.

It was 1997. Some college friends from Newburyport, MA invited me up to relax and take a break from my loss. I went. They asked if I wanted to see a movie, and I said "sure, why not". We drove to New Hampshire as they wanted to see a new Jack Nicholson movie "As Good As It Gets". I enjoy his movies so figured I would at least be entertained, in spite of the depression and continued writers block I was experiencing.

If anyone has not seen the film, I strongly suggest it. Nicholson plays a crusty author with writer's block who is a rude misogynist, homophobic man who seemed to just take up space and complain. His neighbor, played wonderfully by Greg Kinnear was a gay man with an effeminate poodle-looking dog, that only served to make Nicholson more homophobic and stereotyping his neighbor (for the dog). Suddenly Kinnear is violently attacked in a robbery and nobody is there to take care of the dog. Enter (hesitantly), Jack Nicholson.

As time goes by, he is walking the dog, taking care of it, and his paternal instincts have kicked in. His
"hidden" love for Helen Hunt, who played a waitress at a cafe at which he frequented blossomed.

Everything changes for Jack. Nicholson realizes he has learned unconditional love from this little dog while his wounded gay neighbor recovered.

By the end of the movie, he "won the girl", befriended Kinnear, and it had a very happy and somewhat predictable ending, but, it was so well-acted and written, it swept the Academy that year.

I returned home to Mississippi to my small house, alone. I was a volunteer at an equestrian center owned by the University. I really was not a "horse-person" but enjoyed caring for them as always loved animals in general.

One day, a pack of three dogs showed up at the center. There had been a tornado that day, and they appeared to have been out in the elements for weeks. One seemed near-death and was frightened to death of humans. He barked at the omnipotent thunder so I named him "Thor".

A veterinarian friend of mine told me she would take him home and bring him back to health if I would keep him, probably wouldn't live long due to his trauma but could at least have a few happy months or years. I reluctantly agreed. By his teeth, she estimated his age to be around eight years old.

Fast forward twelve years. Thor is still with me and my shadow. I have written over 200 articles, essays, etc. since he's been in my life. I have written and produced the largest cartoon site on the Internet. I have the unconditional love of a beautiful, sweet successful woman who I would never have given the time of day, or vice versa, had I not learned what I learned from Thor.

He is a mixed-breed, probably part bearded collie and something else, who knows. He's very smart and wise reaching age 20. He is on the b.a.r.f diet (biologically appropriate raw foods) and does not eat dog food. Until this year, he had no vet bills for nearly 11 years. Now his heart is a bit weaker but he still has all his cognitive abilities and can be very puppyish. More on pet nutrition at http://www.drianbillinghurst.com

He's just a stray. A 35 pound ball of fur that looks somewhere between Benji and a sheepdog.

I never knew a stray mutt "Thor" could be my inspiration, even after seeing the Nicholson movie, but he is.

I have taken in probably 20 stray dogs and cats since I've had Thor but found them all homes. Thor does not like to share his space with me, and at his age, he is the boss. I don't want him feeling "replaced".

I encourage you to run by the shelter and take a look at some of the gorgeous sweet animals desperate for a home. Most shelters are not no-kill so most of them are on death row. You can be a hero to them, and believe me the payback is a million times over.

Don't believe me? Give it a try.

Monday, September 20, 2010

another adoption ^^' open

well...yeah... another adoption ^^' i dont own anything and amber gets 1st pick..



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8heXtWTKmWQ&hl=en

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Animal Adoption

Love for animals has been in the human gene for a very long time. That is why animal adoption is not something new. People have adopted several different kinds of animals for decades with most adopted animal being dogs and followed by cats. The idea of adopting and caring for an animal should not be taken lightly. You should only adopt knowing that you will be able to handle what comes with taking care of the animal.

Pets have always been something we long to have ever since we were kids and so do the kids of nowadays. It is actually good for your child to have a pet at an early age which will teach him or her how to take care of a living being. Animal adoption will be good for your child because they will learn responsibility and gain some maturity.

If you are thinking of animal adoption you have already thought how you will be able to take care of the animal. You have a variety of animals to choose from. You can get a hamster, turtle, parrot, cats, goat, guinea pigs, rabbits, and a gold fish and off course dogs. However choosing exotic animals such as snakes, hawks, and any kind of reptile, will be even harder to take care of so if you are ready for such a responsibility then you should take it.

Regardless of what animal you choose to be your pet you must be prepared to work hard in providing care, food and nurturing the animal in a good and safe environment.

Friday, September 17, 2010

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Extrait à Montréal - L'adoption

Extrait à Montréal du dernier spectacle de Patrick timsit ... à voir !!!!



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E80Q0VRmErE&hl=en

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Sophia's Story

Our "gotcha" video for our daughter who was adopted from China in 2004.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkR3vieB2u4&hl=en

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

SMBs Cloud Computing Adoption - The Future's Bright

Cloud adoption today

Adoption rates and forecasts for the much-hyped technology of cloud computing are all over the map. Goldman Sachs say one thing, Forrester say another. We looked at a Spiceworks survey of over 1,500 IT professionals that shows that smaller companies are more willing to move their technology to the cloud. The top line: 24 percent said they are using or planning to move to the cloud. Despite this, 62 percent still said they are not currently using the cloud and have no plans to use it. The biggest turn-off appeared to be concerns over unproven technology, something which is sure to change as technology becomes more trusted and more established.

The reality is that SMBs have been on the cloud for some time now, and are the main drivers of the largest and fastest growth trajectory surrounding cloud technology. Adopting SaaS early on, many SMBs have contributed to the rapid expansion of SaaS providers like Salesforce.com. Now small and medium businesses are looking to put much of their IT into the cloud, if only for the sole reason of saving money.

Why is the cloud suited to SMBs?

While larger organizations and government agencies are busy sorting out security, privacy, compliance and control issues, the decision to go cloud for small businesses is an easy one. In many cases they cannot justify or afford the large CapEx of traditional IT. They also typically have less existing infrastructure, less bureaucracy, more flexibility, and smaller capital budgets for purchasing in-house technology. Similarly, SMBs in emerging markets are typically unburdened by established legacy infrastructures, thus reducing the complexity of deploying cloud solutions.

A brighter future

Without the opportunities available in the cloud, most SMBs would have to go without core enterprise systems such as CRM, ERP, calendar sharing, e-mail, and even business intelligence. But what they have come to realize early on, is that all of these can be enjoyed out of the cloud for a few dollars a day.

What's more, the increasing availability of clouds have opened opportunities for small technology-oriented startups to rent virtual data centers and avoid the huge investment needed to purchase hardware, software, and rent data center space. A million dollars used to be the minimum for a start-up to prepare for its development... With the options in cloud computing today, that money can be put to better use elsewhere.

Unfortunately many cloud computing providers and cloud application vendors are overlooking the emerging SMB market and just concentrating on the big players. We think we've positioned Bime to benefit both - and especially SMBs. Bime's low prices and ease of use make it perfect for a start-up or a medium sized enterprise. But that is not to say it isn't essential for larger enterprises too - among some of our larger customers are ArcelorMittal and the Adysa Group.

Monday, September 13, 2010

The Adoption Process

Many couples who are considering adopting are not sure where to start. The following is a simple outline of the steps in the adoption process.

Research - The whole adoption process can be confusing and overwhelming unless you are well-informed. There are a number of informational resources available including adoption agencies, social services, and non-profit organizations. The state can put you in contact with adoption specialists, lawyers, and adoptive parent groups for further assistance.

What's the Law - Different states have different regulations regarding adoption. Knowing the law will allow you to adopt faster and avoid frustration and set backs. You can consult with an attorney that specializes in adoption and family law or a government agency such as child welfare services; they will verse you in your state adoption laws and regulations.

Explore Your Options - With so many different forms of adoption, you have a number of options to choose from; would you rather adopt domestically or internationally? An infant, toddler, or older child? What about adopting through social services, the foster care system, or a private adoption agency? Discuss with your partner which alternative works the best for you. You should take note of any and all factors associated with each type of adoption, including the characteristics of a child of a given age, the waiting period for international adoptions, or financial concerns.

Select an Agency - Depending on which type of adoption you choose, you must select an agency that specialize in that type of adoption. You can choose a private agency, a government organization (if you are adopting through the foster care system or social services), or an adoption attorney who will work directly with you and the birth mother. Financial constraints may limit your available options; private agencies and attorneys tend to be more expensive than working with a government or non-profit organization. You can request free literature and informational packets from agencies to familiarize yourself with their services. The internet is also a great way to research prospective agencies; most will have a website you can reference. Once you have selected, you will most likely have to go through a number of orientations, fill out an application, and pay necessary registration and legal fees.

Home Study - No matter what kind of adoption you choose, you will be required to complete a home study. This entails a social worker visiting your home to asses the environment in which the adoption child will live. The home study may last several months and involve a number of visits, all depending on the adoption waiting period, the agency you are working with, and your state regulations.

The Placement Process - The length of the adoption process and estimated waiting period depends on the type of adoption you chose (international or domestic adoption). Most agencies will allow pre-placement visits, which means you will be able to visit with the child before they are officially placed with you.

Finalize - An adoption is not finalized until done so legally in court. Typically a child will live with you for an extended amount of time (like 6 months) before the adoption is finalized. During this time, a social worker may visit several times and your attorney or agency will submit a written recommendation. International adoptions have a series of legal regulations much different than a domestic adoption, so make sure you know what the process requires.

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Public Adoption

Public or domestic adoption refers to any adoption that is arranged by a government or public agency. Previously, most adoptions were done in this style. However nowadays, many adoptive parents select private adoptions, especially international adoption. A public adoption authority had much command over the procedure than a private adoption authority. With public adoption, the potential parents have fewer choices. Public adoption agencies are primarily focused on the safety and well being of the kid and their priority is finding the ideal lot of parents for the adoptive kid, more than finding the ideal kid for the adoptive parents. When choosing public adoption, the potential parents do not get an entire plenty of say, the authority has the upper hand.

There are requirements of the potential parents when going through the public adoption procedure. These requirements are fundamental no matter where a public adoption takes place. The potential parents are required to see a data session. This session will offer significant and comparative data about the public adoption procedure. The adoptive parents will be required to finish police clearance and medical reports. They have to attend adoption classes. Completed social and family information's about the adoptive parents are also needed. The potential parents are also required to offer private references. There is an adoption practitioner assigned to the adoptive parents and a house survey must be completed. After all of these requirements are met, a kid is placed in the house of the adoptive parents. In public adoption, there is a probationary period following the arrangement of the adopted kid. During this moment the adoption practitioner makes follow-up visits. After the probationary period is up, the parents are required to present a post-placement study to whoever is in charge of adoption in the state or country. When everything is in other and the requirements are meant, the adoptive parents will obtain an adoption decree from the court.

In a public adoption, there are usually no costs involved for adopting through a public agency. However, time is very important in national adoption. The whole procedure can be long. Depending on the kid the adoptive parents are after, the timeframe can change significantly. The data sessions and house survey, which are required, may last nearly a year to finish. When it comes to the real placement of a kid, it depends so much on the adoptive parents and what character of kid they seek. If individuals are looking for a robust newborn, they will probably get to wait a minimum of eight years. However, if adoptive parents are involved in a kid with particular needs, one could be placed nearly instantly.

In national adoption, the biggest reward is the cheap factor. There is normally no price involved in public adoption. If individuals are eager to adopt and ready to receive the responsibilities of raising a kid with particular needs, the time frame is really brief. This is another reward of public adoption. In public adoption, there is less danger regarding a birth mother changing her mind. Most children who are accessible through national adoption are wards of the country; some who have been neglected, abused and still abandoned.

Disadvantages in public adoptions are mostly due to the restrictions and rules concerning kid placement, types of children accessible and of course the waiting, depending on the character of kid the adoptive parents are looking for.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Dan Savage on Gay Adoption

Dan Savage presents his viewpoint on the state of gay adoption in America today.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsqqL3X-Ijo&hl=en

Friday, September 10, 2010

Adoption Statistics - Little Known Facts About Adoption Revealed!

To know the bigger picture regarding what the nature and process of adoption is all about, adoption statistics are more than just numbers for people looking to adopt and those hoping to study the patterns and history of this vital way to building a family and therefore the nation, in turn. Many Americans have been touched by this process of adoption and just a decade ago, in 1997, Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute conducted a survey to report over 60 per cent of US families had experienced adoption in some form or the other. In some instances, the participant was a product of an adoption, in others, one or more family members or a friend had been adopted or had placed a child for the same process. Thus, we find that this interesting study reveals a major portion of American families have been affected in some way by adoption.

The other aspect of adoption relates to the female demographics: women who place their unborn kids up for adoption. This is known as prenatal adoption and usually such women tend to have an inverse relationship with their socioeconomic status (SES) and academic level; sometimes, the decision is influenced by that of the birth mother and at others, by those within her family who are linked to these factors. E.g. a woman with a mother having finished at least a year college is statistically 3 times more likely to place a child for adoption than one a woman whose mother did not graduate high school, reveal studies. Research claims that the latter come families less supportive of giving the child up for adoption which the former are lucky to have, but females from lower SES and academic backgrounds may equally be decisive about giving their children for adoption felt one California research.

Some of these adoption statistics and opinions may be somewhat outdated but as with other issues, the commercials have not been tampered with or changed much, giving us reasonable information that is accurate and revealing about the estimated cost of adoption: the adoption agency hired to find a child is the chief cost incurred by prospective parents. Hiring a local agency for a domestic adoption (public agency) may cost around $2500 or even less than that to nominal amounts, especially the non-profit ones, whereas if handed over to a private agency, the cost of adoption can range from $4000 to $30,000 because these are not subsidized by the state and also offer support services later.

However, the important thing to remember when discussing adoption statistics is that these numbers are only a small element of the adoption procedure and to be used merely to gain an insight into the past of adoptive processes and trends; they are not meant to be yardstick for future figures - go by insight.

Thursday, September 9, 2010

ATWT: Luke's Story - Part 47

Before Luke and Kevin can really talk, Kevin sees Holden watching and takes off. Luke lies that he was telling Kevin to stay away from Jade. But if Holden doesn't believe him, Luke challenges, maybe he wants to ask some more questions. But Holden is too scared to express what he's really thinking. At the same time, Lily is asking Jade about her bracelet and about her adoption. Jade says she was five when she left the orphanage. Twigged, Lily calls a priest and asks if nuns would ever baptize a child with a non-Christian name. The priest doesn't believe so. Later, Jade and Luke bond and agree they've got each other's back...when they see a priest exiting Lily's. Jade panics. Also panicking is Holden, who imagines that, whether Luke is gay or not, Holden has already ruined their relationship.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mhYil2-xE0Q&hl=en

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

You Can't Do That On Television - Divorce 2 (of 3)

1984 EPISODE 073 - DIVORCE Pre-empted Show: Family Ties Get Untied The producer and his wife are getting divorced, and she takes half of everything, including costumes, scripts *and* green slime! Production: Split Down The Middle DID YOU NOTICE? * Adoption was the only episode banned in the US. However, in Canada, both Adoption and Divorce were banned. Air date: Unknown s: Justin Cammy, Alasdair Gillis, Abby Hagyard, Les Lye, Christine McGlade, Lisa Ruddy, Marjorie Silcoff, Matt Cook w: Roger Price, Geoffrey Darby, Terry Taylor d: Brenda Mason



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MBGhNHLb_tw&hl=en

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Kaialavu Manasu - Episode 3

Kailavu Manasu is a short tamil television series directed by K. Balachander starring Geetha, Varadarajan, Chitra, Prakash Raj, Charu Hassan, Krishnan, Renuka, Madan Bob and many more under the Kavithalaya banner. Kailavu Manasu is about Sharada who after losing her husband and being diagnosed with a deadly disease decides to give her three children for adoption. Her three children go to three different well to do families. Sharada notwithsatnding the pain of this separation leaves the place and goes somewhere far away to die. But years later Sharada miraculously escapes death, but realises that life has moved on without waiting for her. Her children have now grown up into successful adults. Sharada has to choose between entering her children's lives again and watching them move on with their lives. Click www.rajshritamil.com and watch the complete entertainment series of 'Kaialavu Manasu'.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YCG8XTMmFnc&hl=en

Monday, September 6, 2010

Information on Child Adoption For Australians

When taking this exciting step in your life, there are a number of procedures that you must go through before you can legally adopt a child from within Australia or from overseas.

It is critical for instance to know the following:

- Detailed information on the Adoption process as this varies from state to state
- Information on adopting a child from within Australia
- Information on inter-country (overseas) adoption
- Our recommendations on what you may need to do to meet the eligibility criteria of your local state adoption department
- Details on the eligibility criteria from countries that are open to adoption by Australian families
- Information on estimated costs and fees for the various adoption processes
- Information on international law and how this effects inter-country adoptions, and recommendations to ensure everything you do is above board and meets international law
- Contact details for agencies, support groups and non-governmental organisation involved in the Australia adoption process

Over the past few years there have been several high profile adoption cases in Australia where the adoptive parents have perhaps not used accredited adoption agencies, which can cause problems later on down the track. Certainly while cases involving adoptive parents need to go to court to have the adoption upheld are rare, these events are exceptionally distressing and ought be avoided at all costs.

By undertaking the adoption process correctly, you can ensure everything is done correctly, to ensure you and your adopted children can build a happy life together.

Other issues to be aware of include knowing precisely what the eligibility criteria are - and what your household can do to ensure you meet these. Criteria can and does vary from state to state, so ensuring you meet all these can save a great deal of time and expense during the adoption process.

When you take up our service, our staff will confidentially review your adoption preferences and provide you with comprehensive and up to date information on the adoption process in your state. As part of our service, our staff are available to answer any questions you may have about the adoption process, provide on-going assistance and up-to-date information as it comes to hand.

Sunday, September 5, 2010

The Most Common Adoption Mistake and How to Avoid It

There are many wonderful adoption professionals and agencies who work very hard to help families successfully adopt a baby or child. There are also many, however, that don't quite give you the "full picture" of their services. What would you say if you knew an adoption agency only successfully located 20 birth mothers a year; but had 200 families waiting to adopt a child? Chances are, you would want to look for an agency that limits the number of families on the waiting list to a more reasonable number in comparison to the number of adoptions they handle each year otherwise you can expect to wait years needlessly to adopt.

Many adoption agencies and professionals do not spend much time getting their name out there to mothers who may be looking to put their babies up for adoption. In other words, they hang a sign outside their shop and hope the mothers find them. This is not a problem as long as it is clearly explained to potential clients. With that knowledge, hopeful adoptive parents can do a couple of things to react to the situation and expedite their adoption. They can hire an adoption agency that does provide outreach services, they can continue to work with the agency but conduct their own search for a birth mother or they can hire a professional whose sole purpose is to help locate a birth mother.

There are more options available to the family looking to adopt a child than most people think. It's up to you to do some research in order to find an adoption professional that will work within your personal adoption plan; so that you are not limited by the limitations of a specific adoption agency or adoption attorney.

Your adoption plan should indicate the baby you would like to adopt; what kind of risks you are willing to take, the level of openness you are comfortable with between your family and the birth mother, among other things. Create your adoption plan prior to choosing an adoption professional to work with, so that you can determine whether or not the agency or professional is willing to work within your plan and help you find a suitable match.

You will want to consider the fact that each adoption professional you consider hiring has a lot to gain financially by having you sign up for their adoption program - even if their program is not the best fit for you. That is why it is so important for you to seek knowledge and define your goals before you spend large sums of money.

When a family looking to adopt a child signs up with the wrong adoption professional, there is a strong possibility that the family will spend years on a waiting list, without a child. In some cases, families feel they are judged for having limits to the type of adoption situation they feel comfortable with- and are pushed into accepting high risk adoption situations. It's important that you find an adoption professional who knows your personal adoption goals, and is not only supportive of them; but will help you successfully adopt a child in a reasonable time frame.

Saturday, September 4, 2010

Adopting A Baby Ferret

I didn't know when my wife asked me to take her to the mall, we'd come home with a baby ferret (called a kit). For me, I thought we'd zip in and out (a husband's dream), maybe catch dinner and see a movie at the local multiplex, my wife had other ideas. A close friend of hers had shown her a picture of a ferret, cute, cuddly, inquisitive, and my wife decided... "I have to have one". What's a husband to do except follow along and break out the credit card when asked.

I did learn a bit on the fateful afternoon, and while I'm not a ferret expert, I'm hopeful my experience can help you make your own baby ferret choice an enjoyable day out with the wife (good luck guys).

FERRET FACT: The scientific name for the domesticated ferret is 'Mustela furo'; they are a member of the weasel family (polecat, mink, ermine, and otter). Historical records state the first ferrets came to the USA well over 300 years ago and were used primarily for rodent control.

Step one in our journey to furry ferret land, where can you find a ferret?

Pet stores, local breeders, classified ads, humane shelters are some among the places to check, with my first choice being the humane shelters. We all need a helping hand sometimes, no different for a displaced ferret. However my wife insisted on a baby ferret, her "biological clock is ticking" so the pet store was our (actually her) first choice. I grimaced quietly knowing if we walked out with a little bundle of ferret joy, I'd have spent around $200 (prices vary depending on your location) on a furry ferret and his necessities.

Be certain to ask about the personality of your (or her) choice, since ferrets, just like "man's best friend" can vary significantly with one enjoying a good snuggle and another wriggling their way to freedom whenever held. That's not to say there are evil ferrets, just a variety of personalities.

You'll need to consider a "litter box", yep, comes with the territory, guys and the fact your furry ferret bundle will need to be "nip trained". These nips aren't meant to hurt you, but biting is part of their nature, having tough skin and used to rough play. You (and your lovely assistant with the smooth skin) might not take these nips in the spirit intended. Plan your ferret "nip training" early and often, refrain from smacking them on the nose (anger management class might help), rather answering their nip with a LOUD NOISE. There are other methods and my wife insisted I try bitter apple spray, tiring quickly from my LOUD... yells.

I'm a firm believer in positive reinforcement, and the pet store owner (I'm taking him OFF my Christmas card list) told me to never let go, even if the little bugger gives me a good nip, rather to reward him/her with praise and a treat when performances equal expectations.

I'm not a vet, and neither was the pet store owner (he was a good salesman) but I knew enough to look for apparent signs of good health; clear eyes, smooth coat and most important, that alert and inquisitive personality that has caused ferrets to be our friends since the time of the Pharaohs.

We walked out of the store with a new pet who'd (in short order) become part of our family living his life (9 to 10 years on average) in the comfort of suburbia. Now then dear, how about that movie?

Friday, September 3, 2010

China's Lost Girls

Lisa Ling recalls the overpowering emotion when American couples in China meet their adopted daughters for the first time. Explorer: 25 Years airs Monday, April 19, at 9P ET/PT



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NlgYXaIdr7E&hl=en

Thursday, September 2, 2010

People and Pets: Common Diseases-HIV/FIV

The diseased immune system in both humans and cats is discussed in this segment on HIV, the human immuno-deficiency virus and FIV, the feline immuno-deficiency virus. Special guest is Figaro, an FIV-infected black cat. Series: "People & Pets: Common Diseases" [6/2002] [Health and Medicine] [Show ID: 6564]



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7dBfBtOW-k&hl=en

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Finding Grace: An Adoption Story

Tim & Liz Polen share their adoption story of a down syndrome child from the Ukraine. Trinity Church, Redlands CA www.trinityonline.org http Reece's Rainbow



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APPkIejI5O8&hl=en

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Finding the Right Adoption Agency

Adoption services and agencies are one of the most remarkable services in the world, because of the emotions involved. These are places where families who have been longing for years to have a child of their own are matched with children who have been orphaned by circumstances and in need of what they can call a family of their own. Adoption services have brought so much relief and happiness to an untold number of people worldwide. Adopting a child is always a joyful thing to both the adoptive parents and the adopted child but it's not all roses. The adoption process can also be a frustrating and confusing experience; therefore, it is always very important to make the right choice of adoption agency. There are several things that should be considered before deciding that an adoption agency is good enough for you.

Adoption agencies are usually licensed by the state authority and are subjected to rigorous inspections and regulations, which are carried out periodically, to ensure optimum services. Most agencies have staff scattered in different countries of the world who are on the agency's regular payroll. These staff members are required to aid international adoption. Such an arrangement is better than hiring individuals who only work in cooperation with the agency. An agency with international staff strength is bound to be more effective. This an important question to ask when dealing with an adoption agency, especially one that claims to be international in operation.

Another thing to consider when going in search of an adoption service is your budget. The whole process make a hole in your pocket, especially when you are not so buoyant financially. Depending on your pocket, your choice of service could vary. For those with a large budget, a private sector agency would be the best option. These agencies would help you research potential children available for adoption based on your criteria, however, the limitation to the use of such service is the price involved. Most families will not be able to afford such services in addition to adoption fees, travel costs, and other costs associated with adopting a child. A more budget-friendly option is the not-for-profit sources and social service agencies.

Nevertheless, whatever your budget and choice of adoption service, before opting for an adoption service, you will have to consider what you know about the agency. Where are they located and what service would they provide to you? Are they affiliated with government agencies, healthcare services or churches? The more that you know about the service, the better you can be prepared. To get first hand information on whatever service you want to use, you may have to first contact your state's licensing office to see if the agency's license is up to date. The Better Business Bureau (BBB) would be a good place to see if the agency has had any serious case files against it. You could also surf the Internet and make contacts with individuals who have used this particular agency's service in the past and hear what they think of it. You will find several chat rooms and news bulletin board that allow such communication and contacts.

Alternatively, you could request a list of previous clients from the agency itself, arrange to meet them and hear what they think of the agency and how satisfied they were with their service. No information is too much to protect you from the heartbreak that accompanies a failed adoption attempt.

In addition, an adoption agency should not mind telling you how they operate. You need to know what process they follow in connecting you with the baby you want to adopt. You have to know how the children and parents are selected and what you need to do to be qualified for the service. You also need to know what the agency does for legal matters. How involved do they want to be, legally? For instance, what happens when the birth mother decides to change her mind? Will the adoption agency handle the legal paperwork for you, or are they going to leave you to your fate. You have to know the roles of the birth parents in the whole process, to avoid interference from them when the adoption process is over. You deserve privacy and freedom with your adopted child, just like any other parent. You will also have to know where the babies are coming from and how they were gotten; to be sure it's completely legal.

You will need this, and much more information, to choose the right adoption service and to ensure that you will be getting an excellent service and a flawless and joyful adoption experience.

Monday, August 30, 2010

LOST 4x11 Baby Locke & the return of Richard Alpert

LOST Season 4 Episode 11 "Cabin Fever" John Locke is a baby and in the hospital.. his mother doesn't want him and his grandmother wants to give him up for adoption. Later, a very recognizable stranger makes his appearance.. LOST © MMVIII ABC Studios All Rights Reserved



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LkIsA0_CILQ&hl=en

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Surrogacy Versus Adoption

Those faced with infertility or those with societal hurdles such as gays and lesbians have options to consider in their quest to become parents; mainly, adoption versus surrogacy.

The decision of which option is the best is profoundly personal and dictated by many factors such as the importance of a genetic relationship to the child, control over issues such as prenatal care, involvement in the entire process from pregnancy to birth, or perhaps the desire to help an orphaned child, requirements imposed by foreign countries in international adoption, uncertain waiting time in domestic adoption and costs.

While the decisions may personal, external factors are affecting the viability of adoption for many. As international adoption continues to diminish as a viable option (Guatemala closed its doors end of 2007, Vietnam in 2008, Kazakhstan has extremely arduous travel and length of stay requirements, Central and South America has been crippled by strenuous and ineffective requirements imposed by UNICEF-pressured ratification of the Hague Treaty), those wishing to parent children will look to technology to build their families. Gays and lesbians confronted by anti gay and lesbian adoption laws in foreign countries and at home have been actively building families through surrogacy for years.

Surrogacy arrangements in the United States are generally very costly, often in excess of $100,000. These costs are prohibitive for many and so considering surrogacy as a viable option to adoption was often not possible. That is changing.

International surrogacy is an ever-growing option for many families seeking to build their families through surrogacy but at significantly lower costs than what can be offered in the United States. India has been the largest provider of surrogacy services; however, growing unrest in India including recent bombings has left many potential parents weary of travel to India. Families have other options, however, such as Russia, Ukraine, and now Guatemala. Guatemala may prove to be an outstanding option with relatively easy travel, quick flights from the United States.

With the introduction of low cost international surrogacy options, those seeking alternative paths to parenting besides giving birth to a child can now weigh the pros and cons of both options and decide based on needs and desires versus cost considerations alone.

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Natural Pet Products and Pet Adoption Center - Succeeding Beyond Hopes

Did you know that a pet adoption center can actually save the city money, drive business and, more important, set up countless homeless dogs and cats with new families? This is a very important fact that people should know. Because of the existence of these pet adoption company, no adoptable pet has been put to sleep by the city.

Every year, about 4,500 adoptable animals find themselves in the city pound. Until recently, around 2,500 were put down when their time ran out in the pet shelter, which can house four hundred strays, he mentioned. A lot of different pets have been adopted ever since these types of facilities have flourished and a 100 percent improvement from a year ago. Demand has been so huge that pets from various other cities' shelters have been moved in. This is definitely good news for animal advocates in the nation and around the world that these are still being implemented successfully up to now.

Just like in real estate, it's exactly about location and staging -- not to mention being open 7 days a week. Pet lovers are in the pet store and at the same time petting a passel of dogs in the center's play area. The town shelter is in a remote location, and it is not an inviting atmosphere. Here, folks have clean, pleasant areas where they can have interaction with the pets. Launching a similar stand-alone center in this type of suitable location could have cost millions and millions of dollars and would not have attracted large walk-in traffic coming from an adjoining pet shop, most of these pet adoption centers mention. This has been so effective, that most of them are actually discussing about opening an additional center across the nation. They are constantly receiving phone calls about this every day from around the country. Everybody wins, and they have not spent one general-fund dollar. Popular pet charities and animal shelter foundations find themselves constantly working closely with these agencies because of this reason.

Most of these well known pet adoption centers present a lot of substantial space for the pets, so a lot nonprofit group contributes thousands of dollars to develop a great partnership with them. They have actually realized it would be great, but it's been even better than they believed. They could not be happier with the over all results of the project. People return multiple times to check out the animals.

Who would have thought that people will travel in from miles and miles away to see the facility! The pet adoption center is a "successful model" for other animal shelter charities and other communities to consider, most of the managers for the nonprofit group often mention. There are lots of individuals who want to save a shelter animal, and perhaps they are intimidated. It can be very overwhelming and emotional to go right into a shelter setting. This type of partnership can make it easier to visit and not be weighed down or sad. It's a great way to boost adoptions.

Friday, August 27, 2010

Why Enterprise Adoption of Linux is Slow

The great NOS debate rages on in newsgroups, forums, and blog comments across the Internet. The two rival factions-those supporting Microsoft as the supreme network operating system and those supporting Linux as a viable and worthy alternative-continue to wage their respective holy wars, each declaring the other to be the antichrist of technology.

Each side has made some good points and each side, in my opinion, has also twisted the facts and figures to serve their own arguments and opinions. Whether you love Microsoft and hate Linux or Love Linux and despise Microsoft, the fact is that both operating systems are here to stay. Both operating systems have been adopted in the enterprise and both operating systems serve a purpose that the other is not able or capable of fulfilling to the extent required within the enterprise. With that said, lets turn our attention away from the war and to the reasons that Linux has not been more widely adopted in the enterprise environment.

When I discuss Linux in the enterprise I am not speaking to Linux on the end-user desktop. We all know that Microsoft simply beats Linux on the desktop, hands down. Today's Linux desktop is more cumbersome to use and support, but the primary reason for the lack of desktop adoption is the lack of business and productivity applications supported on Linux. As enterprises have grown and continue to grow, however, they have discovered that there is a need for Linux. They have discovered that Linux excels in the enterprise when it is deployed in the data center.

Linux has become a common enterprise back-office platform for many types of enterprise applications. Database servers, portal applications, web servers, server virtualization and even firewalls are all common enterprise applications that utilize Linux as the network operating system. In these types of roles Linux delivers the performance and reliability that an enterprise needs to meet business goals.

With the major benefits that Linux can bring to the table why have we not seen a more rapid adoption of Linux technologies in the enterprise? There are several reasons, but it most instances the issue revolves around the lack of experienced support personnel and a lack of understanding in terms of Linux in the data center.

One of the primary reasons for a slower adoption of Linux is support. Microsoft supporters continually point out that Linux is more complex to administer when compared to Microsoft Windows Server, and they are right. Linux is a very flexible platform, and with this flexibility comes complexity. Microsoft Windows Server is designed to operate one way reliably and consistently. While you can configure some parameters on Microsoft Windows Server it is in no way as flexible as Linux. Linux allows you to customize practically every conceivable parameter to suit your needs. Again, it is this flexibility that introduces the complexity of managing a Linux platform.

Given the fact that a Linux server requires a more skilled administrative resource when compared to Microsoft Server it is this requirement that is a primary factor in the slower adoption rate of Linux in the enterprise. To be clear: I am not saying that Microsoft professionals are less skilled; what I am saying is that the complexity of Linux requires a Linux administrator to possess a more in-depth level of understanding and experience with the Linux OS. Because these skills are not yet as prevalent in the industry today as Microsoft skills, the adoption rate of Linux is slowed as IT managers and CIOs are reluctant to introduce a system they view as potentially harder to maintain.

Further impacting the adoption of Linux is the lack of understanding in the industry when it comes to Linux. When IT professionals think of Linux there is a natural tendency to think about Linux on the desktop. In fact, most Microsoft supporters base their entire anti-Linux argument on the Linux GUI desktop compared to one of the several flavors of Windows still in use today. More often than not this comparison is carried over to the Linux server platform, where the differences in raw capability between Linux and Microsoft Windows Server are far fewer. Put bluntly, comparing Linux deployed on the desktop to Linux deployed on the server is like comparing Microsoft Windows 3.1 to Microsoft Windows Server 2003. The comparison holds no merit in this example, just as it holds no merit when comparing Linux on the desktop to Linux deployed as a server platform.

The only true advantage Microsoft Windows Server has over Linux is in the numbers of supported applications available for each platform. While Linux is far from being an acceptable option as an enterprise email platform, for example, this is not because Linux is a poorer choice for such an application but rather because of the position Microsoft has in terms of third-party application support. If tomorrow an email platform equal in functionality to Microsoft Exchange Server were to be released for the Linux OS, Microsoft would be hard-pressed to retain the deployment numbers they enjoy today in enterprise Exchange customers. As major industry software developers such as Oracle, IBM and SAP continue to expand their software offerings to the Linux platform it will become increasingly more difficult to ignore Linux based simply on its name.

Understanding the performance and reliability that can be gained from a Linux deployment is key to understanding the benefits of deploying Linux-driven technologies along side Microsoft solutions in the enterprise data center. As the numbers of IT professionals with Linux skills continues to grow so too will the adoption rate of Linux in the enterprise.

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Foster Care Or Adoption?

Adoption and foster care are two very different things. The variations between the two are small to large. When the visits to the home beforehand are through, the social worker is finished and not a necessity anymore. The adoption will be final and the child yours. It will be you and you alone deciding things. When it is time to take them to the doctor, it is you who chooses the treatments. The countless number of issues is yours to decide with no one to be looking at you every step of the way. This kid is no different form one of your own. You are now in charge and the one who is liable for the safety of the kid until they reach adulthood. You are now the one who has to shoulder the blame for them through the law.

If this kid has been in foster care before, you and the social worker will need to transfer the child over to a new way of thinking. Life books or diaries are wonderful. Make a big deal about the new member. This will be a chance for the child to realize this is permanent. The whole family is able to join in and welcome the kid. The kid needs to realize that they are finally home and do not ever have to go away again. Tell them how this makes you feel. A celebration for the kid is perfect and the bigger the better. Announce to the world that the kid has arrived. These are great ways to show how proud you are. Find out what the adopted child and the rest of the family want to do for this great event.

Bring about a mixing of all the new kid's experiences and past with yours. You cannot forget where this kid came from. If this kid is from a home that experienced abuse of any type. Training might be a good idea so you will be able to see how it affects the kid and what you can do to help. If the kid is to visit with foster families or their birth families, you will need to address the issues of time management. If the kid has special needs, allowances will be made. Find out what resources are available for their individual specific situation. Money may be available to you also. Changing from a temporary home to a permanent home is a scary event. The kid will need to be moved from one way of thinking to another. You will need to be in a place to accept this kid as your own till they become an adult. Is this something you are ready to do? Can you face the good and bad times of this new family member?

Is this particular kid one with whom you can spend the rest of your life with? Look into how this change will affect everything. The agency helping you could be able to take you form a to z and explain things to you.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

The Dying Rooms 3/4

research-china.blogspot.com This was in 1995, things are vastly different now.



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Tuesday, August 24, 2010

It's a RUFF Life Rescue

Pet Rescue video showing the scared, lonely faces that were left behind.



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Monday, August 23, 2010

Putting Your Child Up for Adoption - 3 Simple Steps

Some mothers become pregnant unexpectedly, at a time where they are unprepared and feel unable to cope with a child, and all the responsibilities of being a parent. Issues that a person may come across include financial worries or lack of funds, emotional problems or physical disabilities. When faced with pregnancy some people have an abortion; others may not feel that is right to terminate a pregnancy, and some have left it too late as they did not know they were pregnant. One option is to put your child up for adoption - this is a good idea if you feel that you truly cannot care for the child on your own as you don't have enough support. The following shows the process, step by step, for putting your child up for adoption.

1. Firstly, you should make an appointment to see your General Practitioner before the birth, and let them know that you wish to put your child up for adoption. If you feel more comfortable talking to a stranger rather than your doctor, you can always make arrangement to a professional at your local health centre. They will have all the information necessary about adoption and put you in touch with the relevant agencies. There are many bogus adoption agencies claiming to be professional, so it is important to go to your local health services who have a list of licensed agencies. That way you can feel confident that the adoption agency you are dealing with are legitimate.

2. Secondly, you should get all the information on your medical records if you are going to put your child up for adoption. If at all possible, the father of the child should be encouraged to get hold of his medical records too as this is important information. It is important that the medical records of the child are recorded for future reference. The child's medical records can get lost in the process of adoption, so it is a good idea to have the parents' medical records. This is very helpful if a child becomes ill, especially if they need hospital care, to determine what could be wrong with the child, or if there is anything to look out for in the future. It could prove very beneficial if you can also obtain the medical records of the child's grandparents.

3. Thirdly, now that you have decided to place your child up for adoption, you need to make a decision on whether to have an open or closed adoption. An open adoption allows the parent can continue to have interrelations with their child even though they have been adopted, so that they can keep close ties. Some parents opt for a closed adoption if they want to cease all contact with their child, in the best interest of the child, so that they consider their adoptive parents as theirs. It is more common for parents to choose an open adoption so they can continue to interact with their child and never sever that bond they feel for their child. If this is what you prefer and it works well for both parents, then an open adoption is the right choice for you.

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Adoption - Think Before Adopting - Not Afterwards

There are many serious questions to answer for our selves, in addition to the details required by the government agencies dealing with adoption of children.

No doubt one of the most obvious is - will the newcomer fit into the existent family, whether or no there are other children involved?

Is this inclination to adopt born of a great love of children; or from your compassion for their misfortune; from personal loneliness and desire for a child to help your marriage; is it a mutual desire of both husband and wife; and can you overcome any feeling of possessiveness should the child grow up to seek blood relatives? This last is very important of course and to a great extent is becoming easier as adopted children have been given encouragement to seek our their birth families after they reach maturity. The responsibility of caring for a child is a constant and ongoing one and generally your lives will not be ever as they were before. Some couples absorb an adopted child very successfully into their own existent family of children with none of the considered difficulties being obvious. But usually there are many adjustments to anticipate and couples who have no children of their own are apt to suffer some subtle difficulties not shared by larger families.

They can become so overly protective, possessive or absorbed in the upbringing of an adopted child that their own marriage suffers. Unless there has been discussion and all the potential situations ironed out to their mutual satisfaction, prior to the arrival of the child, problems are apt to come up for discussion in the presence of the newcomer. So there is a vital need for communication beforehand.

A child coming into the home affects everything, from financial situation, health considerations, lifestyle changes, extra responsibilities, educational matters and a thousand other considerations regarding the best possible benefit you can offer a child. This is of course a matter which affects all parents, but natural parents have time to adjust and adoptive parents must sometimes condense this interval because of circumstances.

But a child coming into the family will add an enormous emotional ingredient of extended opportunities for affection, care and generosity of spirit - and if you are fortunate, yours will be the recipient of much affection and the focus of much exchange of affection as well as offering all manner of new interests resulting from another little life coming into your world.

It is rare to find no need for counseling of some sort to help new parents cope with an adoptive child and many potential complications can be attached to this new relationship. Sometimes the circumstances relate to the child's birth parents and family, or nationality, sometimes because of previous marriages and prior progeny of the adoptive parents. But of course most problems arise without any prior warning, even after you have been diligent prospective parents and have thought that you have covered any possible eventuality! So it is good to have a counselor on hand.

The sex of the new member of the household is a strong factor to consider and although sometimes a decision has to be made quickly because of events and possibly within the system of adoption itself, it is good to make this decision well beforehand if possible. It is not just a case of pink or blue decor - it is a potentially highly charged emotional factor and both parents must feel completely happy and in accord with the decision.

There are many well-known avenues of social aid to help adoptive parents which extend from material assistance to psychological help.

Although many hereditary factors beyond any physical characteristics of the child will be known to you, there are many more questionable areas that you will possibly never understand or even be able to adjust to, or to hope to direct as you would like. In this area, great help is offered by knowing not only the date of birth but also the hour of birth, so that a professional astrologer can draw up the horoscope of the child. It is not always known that not only the zodiacal sign will give you the general personality traits, both good and bad, that you can anticipate, but that the so called Rising Sign calculated at the moment of birth, will indicate the child's innate talents and guide you how to encourage these to be developed fully under your new role as parents and careers. Some prior knowledge of the inner nature and personality of the little soul you are putting your hand up to helping in the art of living can assist in creating greater harmony between all members of the family.

It is a wonderful thing to be prepared to look after a child, whether it is your own natural one or from the union of others. Hopefully, it will be an enriching and rewarding experience; and of mutual benefit to all concerned.

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Russia may halt US child adoptions

Russia is threatening to suspend all adoptions of Russian children by US families after a Tennessee woman sent an adopted seven-year-old boy unaccompanied on a flight back to Moscow. Artem Saveliev arrived in Russia with a note from the adoptive single mother saying she had made a mistake taking him and does not want him anymore. She claims he was mentally unstable and violent. But Saveliev said the adoptive mother was abusive. Russia's foreign minister has called it the 'last straw' in a series of US adoptions that have gone wrong. Al Jazeera's Rob Reynolds reports from Washington. [April 10, 2010]



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