Thursday, September 30, 2010
Dell and Ubuntu!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcNQ8QkXcyU&hl=en
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Cat Adoption Information
New York City council does not deal with cat adoptions directly. Anyone who approaches the council regarding the matter of NYC cat adoption will be given a link to Animal Care and Control Services and the ASPCA.
The Animal Care and Control Service is a huge, 'not for profit' organization that covers the whole of the New York City area and deals with shelter and adoption for all animals. As a main contributor to NYC cat adoption, the organisation is vital. There are huge numbers of stray cats in New York and some of the statistics regarding the breeding habits of cats are quite remarkable. Did you know that if two cats were left to their own family planning regime, they could be responsible for starting a family that would number more than 80 million cats within just ten years.
On the AC&C website it is possible to look at the cats that they are trying to find homes for and see a detailed description and photograph. They give information regarding the animal's habits and temperament and each cat is given a short review by their handlers. You are easily able to browse the list and see if there is a potentially suitable pet for you. Obviously you cannot go through the whole process of a NYC cat adoption just on the internet. You will have to visit the centre and handle the animal and there is a comprehensive application form that will need to be completed. This will ensure that the centre is happy about your suitability as a pet owner.
All the pets that are given homes via shelters are spayed or neutered. This is in an attempt to bring down the number of unwanted animals that arrive in their care. Before taking ownership of your pet from the AC&C NYC cat adoption centre, you will also have to sign to confirm that you will not sell or the trade the animal to a third party. If you find that you are no longer able to look after the pet, then you are legally obliged to return him to the shelter for re-homing once again.
The NYC cat adoption system is doing all that is within its powers to help the situation for the hundreds of unwanted pets that roam the streets of New York or are found abandoned or in unsuitable conditions. It operates on limited funding and is dependant on many volunteers. The fees that are charged when you adopt a cat are very low. Often these only just cover the medical care for the animal and their food and care during their stay in the shelter. Any donations that are made to the AC&C are always gratefully accepted, as are offers of help at the centre. If you are considering adopting a cat, perhaps you could give them some of your time to help out for a while. This will not only help them, but will give you valuable experience for when you take charge of your own pet.
Monday, September 27, 2010
Mrs. Winterbourne part 6 of 10 (kind of Adoption)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9Qg9d6jrxM&hl=en
Sunday, September 26, 2010
Nancy Schaefer "The Unlimited Power of Child Protective Services" Part 1 of 2.flv
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ry5eSKyZ98g&hl=en
Saturday, September 25, 2010
PART II: IFRS or Standards Convergence?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E37CZhg2Hls&hl=en
Friday, September 24, 2010
Cute Pit Bull Terrier Puppies
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gplXgq4vI2M&hl=en
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Teacup Dog Adoption - Do I Want One?
Many potential dog owners ask themselves: Do I want a teacup dog? Smaller dogs have long been admired and longed for. Because of their popularity, such pets are of the most considered. Such a decision can be daunting because of the many factors involved in choosing a dog of such a size. But for many, the most important questions to ask are unknown.
The official equivalent term to "teacup" is "toy." No breeds exist that literally have a "teacup" class or category. The term usually is used to refer to dogs that are smaller than average. Teacup yorkies can bring unwanted health problems and high vet bills. However, as a potential teacup pet owner you must ask yourself: Is a smaller size worth the risk and the cost?
Teacup dogs are so popular already, and breeders often charge more for smaller than average sized dogs. Therefore, even prior to bringing your dog to the vet you may pay a handsome fee for adoption. After bringing a teacup yorkie home health risks may arise such as hypoglycemia, fragile and easily broken bones; and birth defects such as tracheal collapse. In addition to the potential high vet bills and fees, are you also prepared to suffer the premature loss of a teacup pet?
If a small dog is injured (accident risk increase greatly because of their small size) the risk for fatality is exponentially higher. Of course, a teacup yorkie with a broken leg is a much more sore sight than a Labrador with a broken leg. The Labrador will most likely nurse himself back to health, possibly after a quick checkup to the vet. A harmed Yorkshire terrier on the other hand will take longer to heal with such small bones, and may never recover, even after many trips to the vet.
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Adoption - How to Handle Hygiene Issues Sensitively in Older Child Adoption
When older children join a family, they often lack proper hygiene. This is common and should be expected. Poor hygiene could be the result of lack of experience (no one ever taught the child hygiene), an expression of low self-esteem, or related to sexual abuse and/or trauma. Some children believe that no one will bother them if they are "stinky".
When one of my children joined our family, she knew little about table manners and less about proper bathroom hygiene. Her idea of bathing was throwing a few drops of water over herself. Hygiene is a health issue, but it is also an opportunity to express parental care and concern and to protect the child from comments from other children and possibly, even adults. If your new older child comes to you with a lack of hygiene, consider it an opportunity to grow your relationship.
Start with bathroom and bathing issues first because these issues will garner the most ridicule from other children.
If you have other children, gather all the children and announce that you're going to have a reminder about bathroom hygiene. Talk to all the children about how to use the bathroom and clean up afterwards. Post a handwashing reminder near the sink.
Don't compound existing shame by yelling/criticizing about hygiene or cleanliness. Further shame could actually make things worse.
If your child is prepubescent, consider bathing them like an infant. Wash their hair in the bathtub. Allow the child to wash their own body (point out any spots they miss), let them play in the tub, sing them songs or read them stories while they bath, and make it a fully positive experience. Super soft towels and a warm temperature help too.
Develop a nightly ritual around bathing so the child knows what to expect and stick to it. Children find structure relaxing.
Do not discuss your older child's hygiene issue with your other children or with other adults. Many children adopted an older age expect adults to be untrustworthy. Demonstrate that you can be trusted.
Remember to focus on the positive, on the victories. Your older child may have a lot to learn when they join your family. Baby steps need to be appreciated and progress should be celebrated. Don't focus on what the child didn't do. Focus on what the child got right.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
The Psychological Benefits Of Adopting A Stray Dog Or Cat
We are experiencing a plague in the United States. Unwanted and stray cats and dogs. I believe a great deal of this is due to lack of education.
Some cities and municipalities put a lot of funding behind spaying and neutering education. Many communities have no-kill shelters, and a lot of other good is being done. But more can be done. The amount of strays is epidemic in the U.S and does not seem to be getting better. We know better, most of us.
For every baby born in the U.S there are seven cats and dogs born.
A female cat and her offspring can (and usually does) produce 420,000 kittens within seven years.
One female dog and her offspring can produce 67,000 puppies in six years (and usually does).
As many as 25% of dogs entering shelters each year are purebreds.
Approximately 61% of all dogs are killed in animal shelters.
Approximately 75% of all cats entering shelters are killed.
It costs approximately $100 to capture, house, feed, and eventually kill each stray animal -- a cost which you, the taxpayer, eventually pay.
Can you see the importance of becoming educated regarding spaying and neutering pets? The Doris Day Animal League has a wonderful program http://www.ddal.org which can give you a great bit of important information.
I do not sit in judgment Though I owned pets all my life, I truly did not understand true pet care until I reached my adulthood. I only knew what my parents taught me which was very limited.
As a upper-middle class child, like other upper-middle class kids, my parents bought me "the dog du jour" or what was trendy from a recent movie. From Irish Setters to Golden Retrievers to Great Danes to Sheepdogs.
And only from the finest breeders.
There is nothing wrong with that. Those animals need homes as well, and I feel good about every animal I learned to take care of as a child (from wherever they derived).
As I matured, I understood owning and caring for an animal is more than "just looking good next to an exotic or popular breed". It is about bonding, caring, and loving that animal and learning unconditional love from it.
I will give you an example. The Northridge earthquake in 1994 destroyed my home. I was forced to move into an apartment that didn't allow dogs. I had a beautiful blonde golden retriever I was forced to give away.
I cried on and off for a month (even though Otis got a home in Malibu and was living better than me).
I moved back to my home state of Mississippi to take care of an ailing mom. As a writer, I knew this could put me in a vulnerable situation, but I also knew that my mom took care of me whenever I was ill and that was the right thing to do. And as I expected, writer's block set in and I did not write for four years. That was okay. One learns some valuable lessons (much more important than writing) when caring for an ill parent. She was once an English teacher, in love with the English language, and, as goofy as it might seem, sometimes I feel her soul is guiding my own text. I have heard more than one writer or artist share the same sentiment; didn't believe them at the time, now I do.
It was 1997. Some college friends from Newburyport, MA invited me up to relax and take a break from my loss. I went. They asked if I wanted to see a movie, and I said "sure, why not". We drove to New Hampshire as they wanted to see a new Jack Nicholson movie "As Good As It Gets". I enjoy his movies so figured I would at least be entertained, in spite of the depression and continued writers block I was experiencing.
If anyone has not seen the film, I strongly suggest it. Nicholson plays a crusty author with writer's block who is a rude misogynist, homophobic man who seemed to just take up space and complain. His neighbor, played wonderfully by Greg Kinnear was a gay man with an effeminate poodle-looking dog, that only served to make Nicholson more homophobic and stereotyping his neighbor (for the dog). Suddenly Kinnear is violently attacked in a robbery and nobody is there to take care of the dog. Enter (hesitantly), Jack Nicholson.
As time goes by, he is walking the dog, taking care of it, and his paternal instincts have kicked in. His
"hidden" love for Helen Hunt, who played a waitress at a cafe at which he frequented blossomed.
Everything changes for Jack. Nicholson realizes he has learned unconditional love from this little dog while his wounded gay neighbor recovered.
By the end of the movie, he "won the girl", befriended Kinnear, and it had a very happy and somewhat predictable ending, but, it was so well-acted and written, it swept the Academy that year.
I returned home to Mississippi to my small house, alone. I was a volunteer at an equestrian center owned by the University. I really was not a "horse-person" but enjoyed caring for them as always loved animals in general.
One day, a pack of three dogs showed up at the center. There had been a tornado that day, and they appeared to have been out in the elements for weeks. One seemed near-death and was frightened to death of humans. He barked at the omnipotent thunder so I named him "Thor".
A veterinarian friend of mine told me she would take him home and bring him back to health if I would keep him, probably wouldn't live long due to his trauma but could at least have a few happy months or years. I reluctantly agreed. By his teeth, she estimated his age to be around eight years old.
Fast forward twelve years. Thor is still with me and my shadow. I have written over 200 articles, essays, etc. since he's been in my life. I have written and produced the largest cartoon site on the Internet. I have the unconditional love of a beautiful, sweet successful woman who I would never have given the time of day, or vice versa, had I not learned what I learned from Thor.
He is a mixed-breed, probably part bearded collie and something else, who knows. He's very smart and wise reaching age 20. He is on the b.a.r.f diet (biologically appropriate raw foods) and does not eat dog food. Until this year, he had no vet bills for nearly 11 years. Now his heart is a bit weaker but he still has all his cognitive abilities and can be very puppyish. More on pet nutrition at http://www.drianbillinghurst.com
He's just a stray. A 35 pound ball of fur that looks somewhere between Benji and a sheepdog.
I never knew a stray mutt "Thor" could be my inspiration, even after seeing the Nicholson movie, but he is.
I have taken in probably 20 stray dogs and cats since I've had Thor but found them all homes. Thor does not like to share his space with me, and at his age, he is the boss. I don't want him feeling "replaced".
I encourage you to run by the shelter and take a look at some of the gorgeous sweet animals desperate for a home. Most shelters are not no-kill so most of them are on death row. You can be a hero to them, and believe me the payback is a million times over.
Don't believe me? Give it a try.
Monday, September 20, 2010
another adoption ^^' open
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8heXtWTKmWQ&hl=en
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Animal Adoption
Love for animals has been in the human gene for a very long time. That is why animal adoption is not something new. People have adopted several different kinds of animals for decades with most adopted animal being dogs and followed by cats. The idea of adopting and caring for an animal should not be taken lightly. You should only adopt knowing that you will be able to handle what comes with taking care of the animal.
Pets have always been something we long to have ever since we were kids and so do the kids of nowadays. It is actually good for your child to have a pet at an early age which will teach him or her how to take care of a living being. Animal adoption will be good for your child because they will learn responsibility and gain some maturity.
If you are thinking of animal adoption you have already thought how you will be able to take care of the animal. You have a variety of animals to choose from. You can get a hamster, turtle, parrot, cats, goat, guinea pigs, rabbits, and a gold fish and off course dogs. However choosing exotic animals such as snakes, hawks, and any kind of reptile, will be even harder to take care of so if you are ready for such a responsibility then you should take it.
Regardless of what animal you choose to be your pet you must be prepared to work hard in providing care, food and nurturing the animal in a good and safe environment.
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Friday, September 17, 2010
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Extrait à Montréal - L'adoption
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E80Q0VRmErE&hl=en
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Sophia's Story
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkR3vieB2u4&hl=en
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
SMBs Cloud Computing Adoption - The Future's Bright
Cloud adoption today
Adoption rates and forecasts for the much-hyped technology of cloud computing are all over the map. Goldman Sachs say one thing, Forrester say another. We looked at a Spiceworks survey of over 1,500 IT professionals that shows that smaller companies are more willing to move their technology to the cloud. The top line: 24 percent said they are using or planning to move to the cloud. Despite this, 62 percent still said they are not currently using the cloud and have no plans to use it. The biggest turn-off appeared to be concerns over unproven technology, something which is sure to change as technology becomes more trusted and more established.
The reality is that SMBs have been on the cloud for some time now, and are the main drivers of the largest and fastest growth trajectory surrounding cloud technology. Adopting SaaS early on, many SMBs have contributed to the rapid expansion of SaaS providers like Salesforce.com. Now small and medium businesses are looking to put much of their IT into the cloud, if only for the sole reason of saving money.
Why is the cloud suited to SMBs?
While larger organizations and government agencies are busy sorting out security, privacy, compliance and control issues, the decision to go cloud for small businesses is an easy one. In many cases they cannot justify or afford the large CapEx of traditional IT. They also typically have less existing infrastructure, less bureaucracy, more flexibility, and smaller capital budgets for purchasing in-house technology. Similarly, SMBs in emerging markets are typically unburdened by established legacy infrastructures, thus reducing the complexity of deploying cloud solutions.
A brighter future
Without the opportunities available in the cloud, most SMBs would have to go without core enterprise systems such as CRM, ERP, calendar sharing, e-mail, and even business intelligence. But what they have come to realize early on, is that all of these can be enjoyed out of the cloud for a few dollars a day.
What's more, the increasing availability of clouds have opened opportunities for small technology-oriented startups to rent virtual data centers and avoid the huge investment needed to purchase hardware, software, and rent data center space. A million dollars used to be the minimum for a start-up to prepare for its development... With the options in cloud computing today, that money can be put to better use elsewhere.
Unfortunately many cloud computing providers and cloud application vendors are overlooking the emerging SMB market and just concentrating on the big players. We think we've positioned Bime to benefit both - and especially SMBs. Bime's low prices and ease of use make it perfect for a start-up or a medium sized enterprise. But that is not to say it isn't essential for larger enterprises too - among some of our larger customers are ArcelorMittal and the Adysa Group.
Monday, September 13, 2010
The Adoption Process
Many couples who are considering adopting are not sure where to start. The following is a simple outline of the steps in the adoption process.
Research - The whole adoption process can be confusing and overwhelming unless you are well-informed. There are a number of informational resources available including adoption agencies, social services, and non-profit organizations. The state can put you in contact with adoption specialists, lawyers, and adoptive parent groups for further assistance.
What's the Law - Different states have different regulations regarding adoption. Knowing the law will allow you to adopt faster and avoid frustration and set backs. You can consult with an attorney that specializes in adoption and family law or a government agency such as child welfare services; they will verse you in your state adoption laws and regulations.
Explore Your Options - With so many different forms of adoption, you have a number of options to choose from; would you rather adopt domestically or internationally? An infant, toddler, or older child? What about adopting through social services, the foster care system, or a private adoption agency? Discuss with your partner which alternative works the best for you. You should take note of any and all factors associated with each type of adoption, including the characteristics of a child of a given age, the waiting period for international adoptions, or financial concerns.
Select an Agency - Depending on which type of adoption you choose, you must select an agency that specialize in that type of adoption. You can choose a private agency, a government organization (if you are adopting through the foster care system or social services), or an adoption attorney who will work directly with you and the birth mother. Financial constraints may limit your available options; private agencies and attorneys tend to be more expensive than working with a government or non-profit organization. You can request free literature and informational packets from agencies to familiarize yourself with their services. The internet is also a great way to research prospective agencies; most will have a website you can reference. Once you have selected, you will most likely have to go through a number of orientations, fill out an application, and pay necessary registration and legal fees.
Home Study - No matter what kind of adoption you choose, you will be required to complete a home study. This entails a social worker visiting your home to asses the environment in which the adoption child will live. The home study may last several months and involve a number of visits, all depending on the adoption waiting period, the agency you are working with, and your state regulations.
The Placement Process - The length of the adoption process and estimated waiting period depends on the type of adoption you chose (international or domestic adoption). Most agencies will allow pre-placement visits, which means you will be able to visit with the child before they are officially placed with you.
Finalize - An adoption is not finalized until done so legally in court. Typically a child will live with you for an extended amount of time (like 6 months) before the adoption is finalized. During this time, a social worker may visit several times and your attorney or agency will submit a written recommendation. International adoptions have a series of legal regulations much different than a domestic adoption, so make sure you know what the process requires.
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Public Adoption
Public or domestic adoption refers to any adoption that is arranged by a government or public agency. Previously, most adoptions were done in this style. However nowadays, many adoptive parents select private adoptions, especially international adoption. A public adoption authority had much command over the procedure than a private adoption authority. With public adoption, the potential parents have fewer choices. Public adoption agencies are primarily focused on the safety and well being of the kid and their priority is finding the ideal lot of parents for the adoptive kid, more than finding the ideal kid for the adoptive parents. When choosing public adoption, the potential parents do not get an entire plenty of say, the authority has the upper hand.
There are requirements of the potential parents when going through the public adoption procedure. These requirements are fundamental no matter where a public adoption takes place. The potential parents are required to see a data session. This session will offer significant and comparative data about the public adoption procedure. The adoptive parents will be required to finish police clearance and medical reports. They have to attend adoption classes. Completed social and family information's about the adoptive parents are also needed. The potential parents are also required to offer private references. There is an adoption practitioner assigned to the adoptive parents and a house survey must be completed. After all of these requirements are met, a kid is placed in the house of the adoptive parents. In public adoption, there is a probationary period following the arrangement of the adopted kid. During this moment the adoption practitioner makes follow-up visits. After the probationary period is up, the parents are required to present a post-placement study to whoever is in charge of adoption in the state or country. When everything is in other and the requirements are meant, the adoptive parents will obtain an adoption decree from the court.
In a public adoption, there are usually no costs involved for adopting through a public agency. However, time is very important in national adoption. The whole procedure can be long. Depending on the kid the adoptive parents are after, the timeframe can change significantly. The data sessions and house survey, which are required, may last nearly a year to finish. When it comes to the real placement of a kid, it depends so much on the adoptive parents and what character of kid they seek. If individuals are looking for a robust newborn, they will probably get to wait a minimum of eight years. However, if adoptive parents are involved in a kid with particular needs, one could be placed nearly instantly.
In national adoption, the biggest reward is the cheap factor. There is normally no price involved in public adoption. If individuals are eager to adopt and ready to receive the responsibilities of raising a kid with particular needs, the time frame is really brief. This is another reward of public adoption. In public adoption, there is less danger regarding a birth mother changing her mind. Most children who are accessible through national adoption are wards of the country; some who have been neglected, abused and still abandoned.
Disadvantages in public adoptions are mostly due to the restrictions and rules concerning kid placement, types of children accessible and of course the waiting, depending on the character of kid the adoptive parents are looking for.
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Dan Savage on Gay Adoption
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsqqL3X-Ijo&hl=en
Friday, September 10, 2010
Adoption Statistics - Little Known Facts About Adoption Revealed!
To know the bigger picture regarding what the nature and process of adoption is all about, adoption statistics are more than just numbers for people looking to adopt and those hoping to study the patterns and history of this vital way to building a family and therefore the nation, in turn. Many Americans have been touched by this process of adoption and just a decade ago, in 1997, Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute conducted a survey to report over 60 per cent of US families had experienced adoption in some form or the other. In some instances, the participant was a product of an adoption, in others, one or more family members or a friend had been adopted or had placed a child for the same process. Thus, we find that this interesting study reveals a major portion of American families have been affected in some way by adoption.
The other aspect of adoption relates to the female demographics: women who place their unborn kids up for adoption. This is known as prenatal adoption and usually such women tend to have an inverse relationship with their socioeconomic status (SES) and academic level; sometimes, the decision is influenced by that of the birth mother and at others, by those within her family who are linked to these factors. E.g. a woman with a mother having finished at least a year college is statistically 3 times more likely to place a child for adoption than one a woman whose mother did not graduate high school, reveal studies. Research claims that the latter come families less supportive of giving the child up for adoption which the former are lucky to have, but females from lower SES and academic backgrounds may equally be decisive about giving their children for adoption felt one California research.
Some of these adoption statistics and opinions may be somewhat outdated but as with other issues, the commercials have not been tampered with or changed much, giving us reasonable information that is accurate and revealing about the estimated cost of adoption: the adoption agency hired to find a child is the chief cost incurred by prospective parents. Hiring a local agency for a domestic adoption (public agency) may cost around $2500 or even less than that to nominal amounts, especially the non-profit ones, whereas if handed over to a private agency, the cost of adoption can range from $4000 to $30,000 because these are not subsidized by the state and also offer support services later.
However, the important thing to remember when discussing adoption statistics is that these numbers are only a small element of the adoption procedure and to be used merely to gain an insight into the past of adoptive processes and trends; they are not meant to be yardstick for future figures - go by insight.
Thursday, September 9, 2010
ATWT: Luke's Story - Part 47
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mhYil2-xE0Q&hl=en
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
You Can't Do That On Television - Divorce 2 (of 3)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MBGhNHLb_tw&hl=en
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Kaialavu Manasu - Episode 3
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YCG8XTMmFnc&hl=en
Monday, September 6, 2010
Information on Child Adoption For Australians
When taking this exciting step in your life, there are a number of procedures that you must go through before you can legally adopt a child from within Australia or from overseas.
It is critical for instance to know the following:
- Detailed information on the Adoption process as this varies from state to state
- Information on adopting a child from within Australia
- Information on inter-country (overseas) adoption
- Our recommendations on what you may need to do to meet the eligibility criteria of your local state adoption department
- Details on the eligibility criteria from countries that are open to adoption by Australian families
- Information on estimated costs and fees for the various adoption processes
- Information on international law and how this effects inter-country adoptions, and recommendations to ensure everything you do is above board and meets international law
- Contact details for agencies, support groups and non-governmental organisation involved in the Australia adoption process
Over the past few years there have been several high profile adoption cases in Australia where the adoptive parents have perhaps not used accredited adoption agencies, which can cause problems later on down the track. Certainly while cases involving adoptive parents need to go to court to have the adoption upheld are rare, these events are exceptionally distressing and ought be avoided at all costs.
By undertaking the adoption process correctly, you can ensure everything is done correctly, to ensure you and your adopted children can build a happy life together.
Other issues to be aware of include knowing precisely what the eligibility criteria are - and what your household can do to ensure you meet these. Criteria can and does vary from state to state, so ensuring you meet all these can save a great deal of time and expense during the adoption process.
When you take up our service, our staff will confidentially review your adoption preferences and provide you with comprehensive and up to date information on the adoption process in your state. As part of our service, our staff are available to answer any questions you may have about the adoption process, provide on-going assistance and up-to-date information as it comes to hand.
Sunday, September 5, 2010
The Most Common Adoption Mistake and How to Avoid It
There are many wonderful adoption professionals and agencies who work very hard to help families successfully adopt a baby or child. There are also many, however, that don't quite give you the "full picture" of their services. What would you say if you knew an adoption agency only successfully located 20 birth mothers a year; but had 200 families waiting to adopt a child? Chances are, you would want to look for an agency that limits the number of families on the waiting list to a more reasonable number in comparison to the number of adoptions they handle each year otherwise you can expect to wait years needlessly to adopt.
Many adoption agencies and professionals do not spend much time getting their name out there to mothers who may be looking to put their babies up for adoption. In other words, they hang a sign outside their shop and hope the mothers find them. This is not a problem as long as it is clearly explained to potential clients. With that knowledge, hopeful adoptive parents can do a couple of things to react to the situation and expedite their adoption. They can hire an adoption agency that does provide outreach services, they can continue to work with the agency but conduct their own search for a birth mother or they can hire a professional whose sole purpose is to help locate a birth mother.
There are more options available to the family looking to adopt a child than most people think. It's up to you to do some research in order to find an adoption professional that will work within your personal adoption plan; so that you are not limited by the limitations of a specific adoption agency or adoption attorney.
Your adoption plan should indicate the baby you would like to adopt; what kind of risks you are willing to take, the level of openness you are comfortable with between your family and the birth mother, among other things. Create your adoption plan prior to choosing an adoption professional to work with, so that you can determine whether or not the agency or professional is willing to work within your plan and help you find a suitable match.
You will want to consider the fact that each adoption professional you consider hiring has a lot to gain financially by having you sign up for their adoption program - even if their program is not the best fit for you. That is why it is so important for you to seek knowledge and define your goals before you spend large sums of money.
When a family looking to adopt a child signs up with the wrong adoption professional, there is a strong possibility that the family will spend years on a waiting list, without a child. In some cases, families feel they are judged for having limits to the type of adoption situation they feel comfortable with- and are pushed into accepting high risk adoption situations. It's important that you find an adoption professional who knows your personal adoption goals, and is not only supportive of them; but will help you successfully adopt a child in a reasonable time frame.
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Adopting A Baby Ferret
I didn't know when my wife asked me to take her to the mall, we'd come home with a baby ferret (called a kit). For me, I thought we'd zip in and out (a husband's dream), maybe catch dinner and see a movie at the local multiplex, my wife had other ideas. A close friend of hers had shown her a picture of a ferret, cute, cuddly, inquisitive, and my wife decided... "I have to have one". What's a husband to do except follow along and break out the credit card when asked.
I did learn a bit on the fateful afternoon, and while I'm not a ferret expert, I'm hopeful my experience can help you make your own baby ferret choice an enjoyable day out with the wife (good luck guys).
FERRET FACT: The scientific name for the domesticated ferret is 'Mustela furo'; they are a member of the weasel family (polecat, mink, ermine, and otter). Historical records state the first ferrets came to the USA well over 300 years ago and were used primarily for rodent control.
Step one in our journey to furry ferret land, where can you find a ferret?
Pet stores, local breeders, classified ads, humane shelters are some among the places to check, with my first choice being the humane shelters. We all need a helping hand sometimes, no different for a displaced ferret. However my wife insisted on a baby ferret, her "biological clock is ticking" so the pet store was our (actually her) first choice. I grimaced quietly knowing if we walked out with a little bundle of ferret joy, I'd have spent around $200 (prices vary depending on your location) on a furry ferret and his necessities.
Be certain to ask about the personality of your (or her) choice, since ferrets, just like "man's best friend" can vary significantly with one enjoying a good snuggle and another wriggling their way to freedom whenever held. That's not to say there are evil ferrets, just a variety of personalities.
You'll need to consider a "litter box", yep, comes with the territory, guys and the fact your furry ferret bundle will need to be "nip trained". These nips aren't meant to hurt you, but biting is part of their nature, having tough skin and used to rough play. You (and your lovely assistant with the smooth skin) might not take these nips in the spirit intended. Plan your ferret "nip training" early and often, refrain from smacking them on the nose (anger management class might help), rather answering their nip with a LOUD NOISE. There are other methods and my wife insisted I try bitter apple spray, tiring quickly from my LOUD... yells.
I'm a firm believer in positive reinforcement, and the pet store owner (I'm taking him OFF my Christmas card list) told me to never let go, even if the little bugger gives me a good nip, rather to reward him/her with praise and a treat when performances equal expectations.
I'm not a vet, and neither was the pet store owner (he was a good salesman) but I knew enough to look for apparent signs of good health; clear eyes, smooth coat and most important, that alert and inquisitive personality that has caused ferrets to be our friends since the time of the Pharaohs.
We walked out of the store with a new pet who'd (in short order) become part of our family living his life (9 to 10 years on average) in the comfort of suburbia. Now then dear, how about that movie?
Friday, September 3, 2010
China's Lost Girls
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NlgYXaIdr7E&hl=en
Thursday, September 2, 2010
People and Pets: Common Diseases-HIV/FIV
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7dBfBtOW-k&hl=en
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Finding Grace: An Adoption Story
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APPkIejI5O8&hl=en